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| Thu, 07-10-2003 - 11:15pm |
Does MM tell you he doesn't have sex with his W? Do you believe him?
Just curious.
Hope
| Thu, 07-10-2003 - 11:15pm |
Just curious.
Hope
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OM and his gf rarely have sex, if they have
it at all. He and I don't discuss those things
too much, nor in any sort of detail. It's never
been anything that I've been "worried" about b/c
I know for over a yr. now their sex life has been
close to non-existent (via her complaining all
that time about how she doesn't know why he doesn't
want to, how much effort she puts into trying to
"create the moode", etc). I'm not naive though, I
know that they have to be having sex at some pt or
another. How often, I've no idea. Do I really care?
Not so much b/c like I said, it's a rare occurance
for them at this pt in time. Anytime they are intimate,
it's not like he rushes out to send me the notice or
I am constantly asking him. We don't discuss it. He
knows I don't want to hear it. He knows it'd make me
feel bad. Just as he wants to know if I'm starting to
date other ppl, but does not want to know if I've kissed
any of them anymore b/c he says it hurts too much to
hear about it.
Hope
I'm not (yet) single, so your post doesn't apply to me.
I wanted to say hi, though. I'd thought about putting an APB out for you in case you were lurking - but thought perhaps you left the board as I remember you felt you didn't "fit". Share an update if you feel comfortable.
I hope all is well with you!
Meow
Even though I know he does "make love" to her, it doesn't seem to phase me, as 1) I knew coming into it that she was the one he goes home to each night, and 2) I don't know her, I've never even seen a picture. I don't really care to particularly, but the curiosity is definitely there.
It's funny though, me and MM haven't had sex for like 5 months!! I don't understand this. We do everything else other than sex, but he won't have sex with me, and I don't want to ask. We kiss A LOT lately, which for me is much more meaningful than sex with him. But still I don't understand the lack of sex lately...
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