Situation and need advice

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Registered: 03-30-2003
Situation and need advice
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Tue, 04-20-2004 - 8:52am
So my phone shows that MM tried to call me last night. I couldn't answer the phone. SO I emailed this AM and said I heard the phone but couldn't answer and you should have left a message. Anyway, he emails me back saying it wasn't him. I KNOW it was him. I Have him on speed dial. His name and number comes up. Maybe he dialed wrong or he hit redial or somehitng and didn't know. That is fine. Then I start to panic that maybe someone else dialed. Should I bring that idea up to him?? I don't want to be paranoid. Should I wait to see if he even thinks that way. He may have still been at work or on his way home.
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Registered: 04-16-2004
Tue, 04-20-2004 - 9:20am
It can happen sometimes.
cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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Tue, 04-20-2004 - 9:48am
hi bri. and yes i would bring it up to him that you do have his phone number programmed in your phone and so you KNOW someone called from his phone and hung up last night. better to be proactive than reactive if it's his W snooping and suspicious. just bring it up casually, like "that call definitely came from your phone honey. do you think someone else may have used your phone last night?" if he stays in denial, then you have to be careful in the future about your phone calls. and if it happens again, i'd definitely TELL MM that if he's not making those calls, then his W definitely is. MM needs to delete your number from his call list girl! school that man.

life

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Registered: 04-16-2004
Tue, 04-20-2004 - 11:30am
Oooh...I definitely agree with life....

cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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Tue, 04-20-2004 - 1:46pm
Thank ladies! I did email him and ask him. He now thinks it was him and that he got another call in while he was calling me and that is why he didn't leave a message. He said he has been very busy with work and making a ton of calls and that is why he didn't rremeber at firts. Whatever! He said there was no way it was his W or anyone else b/c at the time of the call he was on route home. Ok why not say that in the first place instead of even making me panic!! He is usually the more paranoid one so I am not that worried. He and I have a mutual friend and it wouldn't be the oddest thing if his W did know he called me b/c she knows MM and I know each other (she may even know we dated breifly before I met my H and he met his W) but it may raise a bit of curiosity! Oh these boys!! Thanks again forthe words of wisdom!
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Registered: 04-16-2004
Tue, 04-20-2004 - 2:48pm
Whew!

cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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