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Sleepless Wondering
| Sat, 03-27-2004 - 1:47am |
I am new to this board. I am married to a complete JERK. I am a stay-at-home mother of 4.
I've been seeing another man since May 2001. He is separated from his wife-for 8 years now. It wasn't "love at first sight" for me! But I have definitely fallen for this man. He makes me happy! My dilemma has been why he doesn't get divorced. He and his wife have no intentions of reconciling, she is living in their house with their 11yr old daughter. He is self-employed. I think he has found a comfortable "resting place" I'd love to kick him out of!! I'm pretty certain the main reason he remains "married" is because he is covered under his W's health insurance policy. I am in a horrible marriage..having OM in my life makes it bearable! I just wonder if there really is a "happily ever after"? Any thoughts on what I should do?
I've been seeing another man since May 2001. He is separated from his wife-for 8 years now. It wasn't "love at first sight" for me! But I have definitely fallen for this man. He makes me happy! My dilemma has been why he doesn't get divorced. He and his wife have no intentions of reconciling, she is living in their house with their 11yr old daughter. He is self-employed. I think he has found a comfortable "resting place" I'd love to kick him out of!! I'm pretty certain the main reason he remains "married" is because he is covered under his W's health insurance policy. I am in a horrible marriage..having OM in my life makes it bearable! I just wonder if there really is a "happily ever after"? Any thoughts on what I should do?
