Small Town Nervousness

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Registered: 03-03-2010
Small Town Nervousness
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Mon, 07-12-2010 - 12:41am

If you're in an affair and live in a large city, I imagine it would be easy to go under the radar and not be noticed so much, if at all.

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 8:03am
I'm sure most of it is your imagination. Maybe some work people suspect, and some others too. But when you're out with your H I'm sure everyone isn't looking at you both and knowing you had an affair! And surely everyone doesn't know or suspect, just a few probably suspect. If it really is winding down and will soon be over, a few years will go by and those who suspected will forget about the whole thing. No reason to move and make a fresh start. Besides you said you loved that town. And how would you explain wanting to move? That might look more suspicious, and confirm in people's minds that you had a reason to get out of there. Hold your head up high and stay put!

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Registered: 03-03-2010
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 1:29pm

Hey... thanks for the words of support and encouragement.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 4:20pm

Hi Bunny,


I think if you've gotten away with it for this long (2yrs) and your H hasn't brought anything to your attention as of yet then your good. I think you just may be a bit paranoid but its always good to stay two steps ahead, not get sloppy and keep in mind that people do watch what your doing when you least expect it. I think it works out in your favor that you both work together in projects and share the same vehicle to get around.


I wouldn't leave the town I love if nothing is happening worth leaving for. Wishing you the best.


 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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