So confused

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Registered: 11-01-2007
So confused
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Fri, 01-22-2010 - 5:27pm

I guess I'm just needing some advice from some of you with a much more level head than i feel i have right now.


I'm married, 13 years to a decent man.

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Registered: 08-28-2004
In reply to: taslove2006
Sat, 01-23-2010 - 4:59pm

hi taslove,


I just wanted u to know I've been where you are. I would definitely tell u to run. I know you care for him and miss him terribly but it only gets harder the longer it goes on.


I posted under ajay's post if u want to read part of my story. I just dont want you to get hurt again and in these situations it's almost a guarantee it will happen. First of all he shouldnt have done u the way he did the first time around. You didnt deserve that. He may do it again especially if u start up with him again. If they see that u will allow them to treat u like a doormat they will continually do so. It seems that when he's willing and it's convenient for him he makes time for you. That's not fair to you. You are a real

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Registered: 11-01-2007
In reply to: taslove2006
Tue, 01-26-2010 - 3:51pm

Thanks for responding!