So confused about what to do

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
So confused about what to do
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Sun, 08-31-2008 - 3:05pm

I’m totally lost and I think that out of all the boards on this site, my dilemma fits here the best. I’ll try to keep this short and still get the important info out.


H and I have been having some serious problems the past couple of years. We make great friends, but sometimes I think being lovers was a mistake. I found out about a year ago that he has been involved in several affairs including the one he was wrapped up in when I found out. We started going to C and that did little except show just how incompatible we really were. We’ve just been coasting along being generally polite and friendly the past few months.


The first person that I turned to when I found out about H’s A was our best friend.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-27-2007
Sun, 08-31-2008 - 6:18pm

Considering your SOs' propensity to cheat, and considering your recent attraction to each other, maybe you should consider talking to your respective spouses about a possible wife swap/swinging arrangement.


I'm half joking. But why either one of you are staying in what sounds like two lousy marriages to two lousy SOs