So heartbroken and hurting...
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So heartbroken and hurting...
| Thu, 08-19-2010 - 11:08am |
Hi everyone,
I am a MW and I am deeply and madly in love with a MM.
| Thu, 08-19-2010 - 11:08am |
Hi everyone,
I am a MW and I am deeply and madly in love with a MM.
Hi Mumofkid,
I won't tell you what to do but just want to throw some things at you to keep in mind.
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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Mum - I am sorry for the pain you are feeling.
Obsessing and hurt..........yep, typical affair.
I have been in your shoes before, and it is intense.
I have to agree with justlivin' on this. It seems like your feelings are out of whack for a co-working relationship that never had more then a little flirting to it. You may have built up a fantasy in your head about what he feels. Thinking that the love messages he writes on his facebook wall are for you, when he's never hinted that he has feelings for you, (and you're not an official fb friend of his) seems like a fantasy too.
I worry for you sweetie. I worry about how you will feel if you seek him out and find out that it was all a one sided fantasy on your part. Please try to prepare yourself for that possibility.
As Rayne said, make sure you're prepared for all the possible outcomes if you contact him. And if you find out that he doesn't return your feelings, try to prepare yourself to completely let him go.
Keep us updated!
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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Thank you for all your responses.
...it hurts to be in love with someone who is not available to you and you are not available to them.....
who says if you are not available to him right now you can't make yourself available to him in future too ? If you feel so strongly for him you better follow your heart rather than keep longing for him .
Best of luck