So nervous....

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-26-2009
So nervous....
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Mon, 06-01-2009 - 10:35am

We are both married. We've had sex on one occasion (3 amazing times, one occasion#.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: sweetjan08
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 12:09pm

I dont want this to come across harsh but I think it might.


This man told you that he wants to see you again sexually and you are wondering if he has feelings for you? He didnt tell you that he wants to spend time with you. He told you he wants to bed you again.


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
In reply to: sweetjan08
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 1:05pm

" Soon the conversations turned sexual again"

"Recently he's mentioned wanting to see me again #sexually"

You have answered yourself.He is in it just for sex.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-26-2009
In reply to: sweetjan08
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 1:23pm

Eeek, ok, I deserve that! I would have responded the exact same way. :)


I didn't go into this with the illusion that it would turn into a relationship or even an EA. It was two consenting adults addressing a mutual sexual curiosity. I don't have any expectations that he has strong feelings for me. I feel myself being pulled in that direction and I'm just curious how he is feeling. I think if he had stronger feelings for me he may not