So relieved to find this board!

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Registered: 02-20-2004
So relieved to find this board!
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Mon, 05-03-2004 - 10:32am
I'm a (semi)happily married woman with two kids, and have been having an affair for about 6 months. I have been torn between knowing this is morally wrong, to feeling so happy when I'm with this other man that I don't care about the moral issue! My biggest anxiety over this affair, is that my husband senses that something is wrong. Do any of you have a difficult time being intimate with your husband now? My husband is a great guy who is a wonderful husband and father, but I just don't feel a romantic connection anymore. I don't want to break up my family, so divorce is out of the question. I guess I would just like to hear from other's who are experiencing this. I don't want to end my affair because it just makes me feel too good! Sometimes I think I'm going through a mid-life crisis because this affair makes me feel like I'm dating again! I would also like to know how any of you find the time (and excuse) to see your lover without getting caught. I actually look forward to Monday's because the only time I can get away is during the weekday when my kids are in school and my husband is working. It would be nice to meet in the evening for a longer period of time.

Thanks for letting me vent! I'm sure I'll be chatting alot now that I've found a place where I can open up and share my feelings.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2004
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 10:38am
Welcome, chicago....to our board!
cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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