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So sad and confused.
| Fri, 08-06-2010 - 9:25pm |
I've been married for 3 years. We have a 2 year old son. My husband is a good man, but I feel that our candle has burned out. I've tried talking to him about it. He'll listen, agree, but do nothing about it. He has never taken me out on a date that he has planned out himself. Every time he was to get intimate he'll grab my butt, or just tell me he wants some. I've told him how I hate his approaches to intimacy, but nothing changes. So lately I've been going out with my girlfriends making plans without him. A week ago,

You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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Hello Pumpkin,
I agree with the posters.
It is so obvious that all this guy wants is to get in your pants. Nothing good can come of this sort of "relationship" Don't risk your marriage for this. Sounds like the guy is a playboy.
Hi Sweet_pumpkin,
I know this is the MAS board but please think this through. I would advise you not to take it any further with this man you met in a bar. He's saying & doing all the right things that you want and need to hear. He's filling something that you have been missing for a while but its soooo not worth it. I've been in that situation. You can walk away now
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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Thank you all for the great advice. So what has happened since the last post was, we went to the movies about 2 days ago. I was really excited to see him. I guess it's very true that I'm trying to feel the emotions with this person, that I'm no longer feeling at home. He started rubbing my leg again, holding my hand. He started to kiss me on my neck, then i told him, "Hey, we should take it easy, maybe we should just watch the movie." Well after that he was kind of dry towards me and messing with his phone. I thought to myself, what the heck I'm I doing here with this guy! Well afterwards we were