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| Wed, 10-08-2008 - 8:32pm |
has anyone here ever done or said anything to their AP, that was so "OF DA HOOK" that he or she should have "whooped yo azz"? not literally whooped yo azz, but figuratively whooped yo azz.

Wow our situations are very similar. I am S w/ a MM, who is 14 yrs my senior. He too is very wise, and I have learned so much from him. This is my first true love, and it's been a rough ride. I learn something new about feelings and how to react to them it seems like everyday.
AP and I met at work. We are both in law enforcement. One day we were in roll call. Everyone knew that we were together despite the fact that both of us were M. We never tried to hide it, looking back I am not so sure that was wise.
Anyway, we were in roll call, but it was over and all the officers were still in there for a few minutes before hitting the bricks. We had already been arguing that day, and he made a smart a** remark, I can't remember now what he said, but he REALLY embarrassed me. Well, he made the mistake of turn his back to me when I tried to address what he said. I was LIVID! I smacked him in the back of the head SO hard that it knocked him out of his chair, and onto the floor. Now my AP is a big guy, so it really took a hard hit to knock him down. He was sitting on the floor w/ his jaw sitting next to him w/ the rest of the jaws of the other officers. I knew as soon as he hit the floor that I was in trouble. I thought "Oh my God, that's it, I am going to get fired and dumped all in the same day." I just left the roll call room, and went about my business.
Later of course I apologized profusely, but at the same time I told him that he was way out of line. My reaction was inappropriate, but so was the remark that he made. He was joking around and said "Yeah that one was for free, the next one will cost you!" But I know he's full of crap, he would never hit ANY woman, especially me.
That was a great question! I had forgotten about that day, it was about 7 yrs. ago. I am sure AP, and the other officers still remember. They always tease him, and say sh*t like "Don't make me go get her, cause you know she's gonna whip yo a** AGAIN!" I am glad it's funny now, because it wasn't then.
Thanks for a great question!
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
Great timing on this question.