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Someone who knows, PLEASE ADVICE
| Thu, 01-29-2004 - 5:23pm |
Ok, here it goes. I have never done this before, but my a is so exciting. My mm is so adorable!. I am also married. This guy used to date a friend of mine. See, he and his wife were seperated for the first time and he lived with my friend for almost a year. This was my best friend who was watching my son on a daily basis. I saw this man all the time. He flirted with me all the time and said he wanted to have a manajetwa with me and my friend. I just laughed, but it always kind of lifted my spirits to have a guy flirt with me like that. Yes, even though it was my best friend's boyfriend. We ended up seeing eachother a few times over the next year, and he was still saying things to me. You know like, "When are you going to sneak out and see me?" One day I saw him at my friends house and when he said one of his comments about wanting to get together with me, I replied call me and lets do it. He actually called and we started hanging out. It was kind of exciting just driving around and talking. Then when we hung out for the third time or something we started to cuddle and kiss. He was so passionate when he kissed me and he always compliments me. This is something that I never get from my husband, so it really felt good to have someone tell you how beautiful you are etc. I had never thought that we would end up having an affair together. But that's pretty much what's going on. It has been about five weeks. We don't hang out like we did in the beginning. He would get out of his house with no problem when we first started hanging out. But now he always seems to no be able to. I go see him at work, and it's just not good enough for me. My friend tells me I need to act no so interested so he doesn't loose interest in me. It is so hard I really like this guy. I feel so dumb, cause I think that I could have something with him. I know that he's married, but how could he really love her if he is having an affair with me. I don't know what I got myself into. If anyone has any advice I would really appreaciate it. Thanks

take care of your heart this guy sounds like he is a player, if he gets boared he moves on to the next game.
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If you play with a player be prepared to be played, keep your emotions out of it, if you can't do that move on or deal with the problems that you and your husband have.
Remember that is is just an EMA and nothing more , A are not real relationships expect nothing from it.
I suggest reading a lot of posts here, at the endings board and at the all sides board to get a complete picture of what you are getting into.
There are a lot of very rough emotional rides that come with this game, if you can fix things with your husband consider that first, you can pretty much expect you M to suffer negative consequences if you cheat that's just the way it is.
Decide is it worth it first before going any farther, Affairs come with a price attached.
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