Something Crazy
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Something Crazy
| Sat, 09-13-2008 - 7:34pm |
Ok something crazy happened today. Before I got married I lived with a girl who dated a guy from NY. We were all friends. Their relationship ended bad. He and I have reminded in contact with each other off and on through out the years just by email. An occasional chat..with just a friendly hello hi whats going on in your life type of thing. Last week we had one of those chats like normal every 3 or 4 months or so if not longer. Thought nothing of it. Then he gives me his number says sent me a text sometime. Ok so I did. Just a friendly text of hi. Today we have texted all day just about and I found out that he actually has had feelings for me this whole time and has never told me until now. I am not sure what to make of all this. But I do know that I never had any idea and never ever even thought about a potential A with him. NEVER! The reason why he said he never told me what because it was different times different people and didn't think I would have handled it well at that time. Which is true. I would have flipped if he had told me this 8 years ago. Now however things are different. So do I treat this as way to move on and see what happens. Or what??? He wants to us to continue talking and see what happens. He even mentioned about us spending a weekend together sometime. I just don't now what to think about this. Its all so crazy!!!

You are in for becoming someone who has series of A's, one after another.Old mate comes along and talks about old feelings and you are ready for another A.If between this, some other old mate comes and discloses his feelings, you will for sure go for it.
Come on, be sensible.If you had one A, you should better know how they are .If you are looking only for sex, then also be careful of the no. of partners you sleep with.
Mend things with H before jumping from one A to another.
Good luck.