Something Interesting I've Noticed...

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Registered: 05-05-2004
Something Interesting I've Noticed...
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Tue, 05-11-2004 - 11:58pm
Can we get all the people who are having affairs with people they're working with to please stand up? Seriously, it seems really, REALLY common now that I've been here a while longer, and I would guess that maybe 80% of the people involved in affairs are doing so with a co-worker, or someone they work closely with. Anyone like to share their stories? I'm still learning...

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Registered: 03-19-2004
Thu, 05-13-2004 - 8:44pm
I have also noticed that the majority of EMA happen amongst co-workers. Personally, I cannot imagine having an A with a co-worker..and seeing and wanting that person during my business hours. It would be enough to drive me crazy. In the same respect, I wonder if since my MM is not a co-worker, could this be the reason our A has lasted 30 yrs?? And it is the only A I have ever been involved with. I would be interested in knowing how long these A last when it is with a co-worker? What happens when someone moves on to another job? Is A over ??? How many A's is everyone into ?? Who is seeing who in the work environment??? Almost sounds like a big party.
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Registered: 05-13-2004
Thu, 05-13-2004 - 11:23pm
<<<<< could this be the reason our A has lasted 30 yrs?? >>>>>

I think the word "love" should appear before "affair" in your case. 30 years? I don't know whether to say congradulations or "You gotta be kidding!"

Edited 5/13/2004 11:27 pm ET ET by madam2u


Edited 5/16/2004 2:14 am ET ET by madam2u

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Registered: 03-19-2004
Fri, 05-14-2004 - 3:29pm
Congrats to you...sounds to me like you are headed in the same direction.....and love is a large part of our vocabulary. we have shared everything over the past 30 yrs. all the good times and the bad times (within our other lives) and best of all we just love to be together, whenever that can happen. As a matter of fact, we even go to the dump together....he will come to my house and load up all my yard trimmings and off we go....good thing the dump is a ways away...at least we can get 3 hrs in of just being together....sounds like you have a great foundation started with you MM....15 plus a fun 5.....I hope you continues building that foundation and you to can have a super experiance........

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