Something to ponder... "What Ifs"

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Something to ponder... "What Ifs"
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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 4:02pm
Ok ladies (and gentlemen!)

Here's something to ponder... and hopefully share your thoughts about.

God forbid anything were to ever happen to MM/OM or MW/OW... or even yourself... but do you and your sweetie have something set up that if anything were to ever happen, you would be able to find out?

I have a friend who knows about me & MM, and the way it is, I would be able to find out through this person if something were to ever happen to him. BUT... due to the circumstances, he would really have no way of finding out if something were to ever happen to me.

Anyone care to share their thoughts? Or plans that you may have already set up?


Complicated

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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 4:08pm
No worries here on that matter. We're all friends so the news would get out. The only worry we have is if one of us dies while we're together. Then we will have a mess on our hands because I'll will have a hard time dragging his butt out into the hall of the hotel room:) Teeheehee (just kidding) but that is something that we have discussed. SOXS
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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 4:11pm
I've thought about this situation myself. I have someone that I've confided in in the event that something should happen to me to let him know. Now I have to get my MM to do the same with someone he trusts. I'm always having these fears that something will happen to him while he's on the road (he does like his fast car) and hey....who's gonna call the girlfriend? Certainly not his wife!
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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 4:18pm

this

CL-Gurlfriend50

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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 4:18pm
But drag him you would! and remember... deny, deny, deny.. hee hee hee
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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 4:23pm
OH, I'm certain I would find the strength:) BTW, how are you? SOxs
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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 4:26pm
It's amazing how strong the 'weaker' sex can be isn't it? I'm good, thanks. Just a new R and all that encompasses. It's been a wild ride. And I'll be glad to get MM out of the house. It's like walking around dynamite and acting like a grownup sucks! But it doesn't have it's moments *smile* Thanks...
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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 4:48pm
Well, you are a strong woman for MM to be staying with you. I know we have stayed at my MM's house in the mountains a couple of times and even though it's fun and exciting. After a few adult beverages, the eyes start to wonder over his way:):) Soxs
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Wed, 02-18-2004 - 6:15pm
My sister who knows MM would contact him if anything ever happened to me but as to how i would find out...I have no clue if his frien thatknows would contact me.. I hope he has thought about that, I know we have discussed it in the past

SB

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Thu, 02-19-2004 - 2:45am
Wow, we haven't thought of this. i am actually pretty sure his W would call me if it were anything bad. i know that sounds so weird. But honestly i think she would. As far me, well, no one would contact him, but since we talk constantly, he'd be aware right away if soemthign were up. He does know where my family members live adn could ask them.

jen