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| Sun, 12-07-2003 - 12:42pm |
I can not complain about the time I spend with the MM I am in an affair with ( We see each other mostly everyday, for long periods of time) Yet I can not feel a sense of emptiness and incompleteness when he goes home to his wife. This MM, also happens to be my professor and is risking not only his marriage and his family, but his job as well for me. He has vested much time, stock and effort into this relationship, much more then a casual fling. I am his second affair. I have a few problems with the situation, espiacially the things that he tells me sometimes, about his wife. He tells me that he can love two people ( His wife and I) and yet, I don't find this very believeable. I believe that if he put us together to create one person, he might have someone to love deeply. Sometimes I just want to tell him to pick between her or me, because it seems as if he spends all of his good times with me and then uses his wife as a security blanket. I am in a dilema, what should I do?

I disagree with any ideas of tricking him or trapping him into picking you over his wife. They need to have the option of making you first in their lives so that you know they are there because they want to be there.I would not want to be tricked into being with my MM
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