I guess the other poster means that dont waste your freedom of being single and find some available men. If that is not what you want then you are free to continue the A.i understand not being able to let go A, much easier said than done.My A has gone from strong to stronger in the last year and dont see any end to it.I even am willing to 'share 'him.I dont have any issues like self-esteem etc. ,its just that i love him dearly and its true.Its very likely that if he got D and we marry,it may not even work out!i dont want to lose him in any way.
"How can you tell if the relationship has run it's course and he's just going thru the motions?"
My GF likes to say "if you spot it, you got it" ...
You can accept him on these terms, or not... your choice. Keep him on the side and find somebody else also, maybe.
Sorry you're hurting.
-jana
'Don't waste that newly divorced status!'
I'm not quite sure what I'm wasting with my divorce status.
If that is not what you want then you are free to continue the A.i understand not being able to let go A, much easier said than done.My A has gone from strong to stronger in the last year and dont see any end to it.I even am willing to 'share 'him.I dont have any issues like self-esteem etc. ,its just that i love him dearly and its true.Its very likely that if he got D and we marry,it may not even work out!i dont want to lose him in any way.
Still_involved,
I’m afraid you misconstrued my post.
I do have the choice and the freedom to look for an available single man.