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| Fri, 01-01-2010 - 12:17am |
what type of mm/mw do you have?
for those of you who answered my post about "what type of s.o.w. are you' this is for you. some years ago, i saw the following on another website for women. i will paraphrase what the person said. She said there were three types of cheaters.
1. the players (in my country they are also called womanisers.
2. those who have problems in their relationships and seek someone else.
3. those who met their soulmate after already committing to another relationship.
my x-mm was in Type 3. based on what he used to say, i know he was type 3.
what category is your mm/mw? if you are a married woman with a single man,you can answer too. if you are s.o.w./s.o.m. with a mm/mw you can answer. i suppose this will determine if your relationhip will survive. happy new year.

I spoke about a friend who is a single ow in my post entitled,"what type of so.w. are you?" (read it). i am not quite sure in which category to place her mm. well category 1, i think would match him cause he has had a number of emr over the years, the previous one before my friend lasted for a good time, it was a long term emr. so he might be a category 1, a player/womaniser (not sure) because players are usually men (or women for that matter) who are not serious about their relationships with anyone. they don't keep one woman/man. they get involved with many different women/men all at the same time. so depending on the definition, he might not be a category 1 cause his e.m.relationships are done ONE AT A TIME and not concurrently. not sure if he is a category 2 as i don't know if he had problems in his marriage. i will have to ask her. but i suppose that if he does not love his wife anymore and she does not love him, then that might indicate that there are problems.
i will have to find out from her.