Speaking of firsts

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Registered: 02-04-2004
Speaking of firsts
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Thu, 02-05-2004 - 2:27pm
I'm SOOOOOOOooooooooo looking forward to my "first" with OM but I'm also concerned about romantacizing (sp?) those firsts too much. Is it appropriate, proper, ok, and all that for he and I to do that?

I'd much rather keep one foot in the reality of my life, of my situation, but DANG.....OM and I talk about those "first" things as if they were the holy grail or something. LOL

Is that silly? Are we setting our sights too high, maybe setting ourselves up for disappointment later when reality DOES finally set in?

ACK! Just more thinking out loud I guess. Feel absolutely free to shrug your shoulders and ignore me. LOL LOL

In the mean time....I'm soooooooo looking forward to those firsts....every single one of 'em.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 02-05-2004 - 2:34pm
Hi Max! Trust me the first can be a wonderful thing. All 273 of mine with MM (one man) has been:) Relax and get to know each other, it will all fall together. Good luck! NMR
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Thu, 02-05-2004 - 3:38pm

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