Start of Another EA

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Registered: 02-03-2008
Start of Another EA
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Sun, 08-22-2010 - 9:28pm
I'm back again after a few years away.

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 8:44am

Welcome to MAS rosalie!

I'm not sure what to suggest, as it seems you already know what will happen if he does come to visit. I agree that you will probably fall for him, and then you'll be looking for his e-mails and wanting that attention and over-analyzing every word that he sends - you know the drill LOL. You'll be hoping that even though he told you upfront that he's a "fun guy" that he's possibly falling in love with you or developing feelings... all the angst etc. that you probably went through the first time.

Just a mention about the fact that he DID tell you not to fall in love with him and that he's a "fun guy"... a lot of guys use this technique right up front as an excuse to treat you any way they want to. If he ignores your texts or e-mails and you have the nerve to get upset he will point to what he said over and over "but this is supposed to be fun, not an obligation! I told you not to develop feelings!"

So it's up to you, really, if you want to climb on that perticular roller coaster. If you do, we are here for you!

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