Starting to want out
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Starting to want out
| Thu, 12-11-2003 - 4:06pm |
I have been a little under the weather for the past week and as a result called out one time this week from work well MM and a dear male friend of mine who knows of the A (MM doesnt know about that he knows) work where I work. Well MM was very concerned at our meetings before starting work and splitting to our departments and was telling me to talk to my boss about going light duty that day or just going home. Mind you while I was out he hadnt called me at all as he usually does when he is off so he did not know I got sick. My male friend, who works closely with MM, was concerned also. MM waited a little after the meeting while I talked to my boss but left right before I was finished, so he didnt wait. He called just once at the beginning of the shift to see if I was feeling ok. I said that they placed me on light duty and he just replied ok. Nothing after that, am sitting here thinking he either doesnt give a hoot or just doesnt want to call. Well after work, 8 hours later, he asked me how I was feeling and I just said better. Just at that moment my male friend (MF) called but I didnt answer and MM told me that MF had told him that what kind of friend he was not to call me all night to ask how I was, and MM told me that he didnt call because he didnt want to bother me, then he acted all concerned telling me to take it easy and he waited there until I left. THen I called MF and he told me that he didnt like the way that MM treated me that it was in his interest, since he "loves me so much" to check out how I was and he told me that he told MM "sometimes I think I care more about her than you do, and you have known her longer". Also MF told me that he got mad because for the second time MM asks him if he would sleep with me and if he likes me, and MF answers we are good friends, no. MM asked these questions to MF right before I saw him this morning (we work nights so that was the end of the shift) Well again I have not heard from MM, not even a how are you doing after all the "concerne" this morning. But I did her from MF, go figure. I feel like crap and feel MF does care more than MM. I wish it was MM. sorry so long
Sally

it sounds like your MM doesn't think about you unless you are in front of him. does he do this often, ignore you and your feelings? why is MM being so dense? and hot and cold??
if it were me, i'd back off from the whole situation, MM and MF, and get myself well and get involved in the holidays/family/gifting activities that abound this time of year. be nice to MF, but don't confide in him anymore about MM because he IS jealous of MM and is interested in you, just isn't pushing his cause because you are obviously hung up on MM. and MM, well, he's just being an insensitive mutant of a guy! not even a phone call to see how you're feeling. that's a little too little in the care department, girl.
rest, make yourself better. take care of yourself!
gurl
Edited 3/10/2004 4:59 pm ET ET by geek_chic
Sally
Sally
Where on earth does a MM get off being jealous anyway?! Hello, the pot just called the kettle black! That would be like me getting pi$$y if SG went out and got himself a honey! I'd be happy for him, is what I'd be, but that's compersion for ya. :-)
Sally
Edited 3/10/2004 4:59 pm ET ET by geek_chic
Edited 3/10/2004 4:59 pm ET ET by geek_chic
Sally