Still Exciting even after the "honeymoon

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Still Exciting even after the "honeymoon
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 11:17pm
Just a note to see if anyone else finds this. That it is still very exciting, even after a couple years have gone by. The sex is exciting as day 1, even more so.

Yet in M, the glow fades pretty fast. And with someone who you love.

I just have to think that even though we get together maybe every week or so, it is all so exciting and everytime is like the 1st time all over again. I don't know, but even if we were able to get together every day, I think it would still be wonderful.

Why is that? If you were married to MM, do you think sex would still be so great or would it fade away like with H?

I personally think, although I don't know what it would be like to live with MM, but I'm sure our sex life would be very spicy. It certainly is now!!

Dusty
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 11:29pm

Hey Dusty,


For me... after almost 4 years... sex with MM is just as good... if not better than it used to be.

Sweet
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Fri, 01-30-2004 - 11:23am
Good question Rose! My MM and I have discussed this several times. Our physcial relationship is amazing! Everytime is better than the last... and we know the next time will be better than that one! Would it remain like this is we were married? I am sure some of the excitment would fade.. but the spark the two of us make together is just hard to see fading.... We would have sex more, I know that, and probably every single time wouldn't be mind-blowing like it has been so far, but I do believe we would have a very exciting and fulfilled physcial relationship if we were married.. and so does he!

Starz

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Fri, 01-30-2004 - 1:22pm
Well I've only confided in one friend about this A. And she was curious about how quickly we fall into bed when we get together. I said we are instantly turned on to each other as soon as we get in that door. She just thinks she could never get into it that quick, but for me and him, its very quick, we are very attracted to each other.

That's what got me thinking down this line, because she says after a couple of years she'd think you'd get a little bored or whatever.

I told her, its nowhere close to being boring!! I think she was actually a little jealous!!
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Fri, 01-30-2004 - 1:58pm

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Fri, 01-30-2004 - 2:11pm
Wow that sounds terrific!! Good for you and I'll hope for the best. My MM sometimes says stuff about if we were together more, I think its sweet when he says those kind of things. I just think that we would be pretty compatable. He says sometimes "if we had met and were dating ..." and has different endings to that sentence. Its nice to think he thinks of things like that!! Even though its just for sex (wink).

Dusty
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