Still going through the pain

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Registered: 04-16-2003
Still going through the pain
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Thu, 11-06-2003 - 10:45pm
It was last week when I last wrote. Im still having a hard time getting him out of my mind. I doubt Ill see my MM for a week or so. I have stopped eatting. The good thing is I have dropped 8 pounds. I still get get over his wife is going to have a baby. It just hurts too much. Just cant beleave that i let myself get so out of hand and have a broken heart. Going in to this releationship thought that no strings and all fun that I would not get so hurt. But here I am a year later with a broken heart. Anyone have a cure???? Let me know.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 11-07-2003 - 11:12am
hey angel, friends with benefits almost always evolves into friends with benefits and emotionally involvement! it's hard to keep the sex and emotions separate after awhile. for me it was almost 2 1/2 years before i realized how much more i cared for MM than just the sex. i would never have said anything but MM brought it up first and it snowballed from there.

learn from the A -- remember the good parts and forget the rest.

gurl's prescription to start the "cure" -- keep yourself busy with events/activities you like/love. go out with friends, dance your butt off, have a few cocktails, get a manicure/pedicure, go shoe shopping, ride your bike for miles and miles. whatever it takes to make you feel better!

YOU WILL GET OVER MM, if that's what you want. move on with your life honey. he has. why should you stay depressed over someone who isn't giving you the time of day!

take care of yourself, and start eating would ya!

gurl

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Registered: 04-16-2003
Fri, 11-07-2003 - 10:21pm
Your letter made me feel better. I am trying to move on. And yes i know he does not care about me in that way. Im just really good in bed and thats why he came back after a year. I know im not ready to move on from him. SO i guess I haev to make the best of it and love the time with him that i have with him.