Still waiting

Community Leader
Registered: 09-21-2007
Still waiting
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Thu, 11-01-2012 - 3:12pm

Ok, with the new boards, I can only get on when I am on a regular computer, and on my iphone, I still can't log on, so posting isn't happening.  Frown  So, I had to wait 5 long days to post.  Grrrrr!

Anyways, I have been talking to my normally nonexistent AP since Friday.  It makes me feel good.  We are trying our darndest to see each other, but the schedules are just not matching up, which really sucks!!!  But he was really understanding, like he read my mind, and said I have to do what I have to, and he still wants me.  It was so reassuring, because I was feeling so upset about not seeing him and insecurities.  It has been weeks, and looks like Wed. or Thurs. of next week finally.  Cross your fingers!!!!! 

So, on Sat. he says to me, something like, doesn't your hubby give you enough?  Again?!?  Really?!  I was like, why do you keep bringing him up?  He said, I'm just busting your stones.  So, for once, I opened my mouth, instead of assuming, what he meant.  And really, he meant nothing by it.  I need to open my mouth more; it will lead to less overanalyzing.  And after that, he was his normal self, being sexual and trying to get me to come over. 

All is good and just a waiting game.  (((sigh)))

 

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Registered: 09-13-2012
Fri, 11-02-2012 - 1:12am

The waiting sucks, for sure.  That's the hardest part.

Sounds like I'm not the only one who can't get the boards to work on mobile.  It sucks, makes it so much harder to post.  I seriously don't know why they would "upgrade" to a system not compatible with mobile devices. Hello! Everyone is doing everything that way now. I will say that being forced to post on the computer has greatly improved my editing ability, and being able to actually put white space between my paragraphs. I'm sure I seem much more intelligent and coherent in this new environment! Ha!

Community Leader
Registered: 09-21-2007
Fri, 11-02-2012 - 11:32am

The waiting surely does suck.  My patience is reallyl being tested!!! lol

I know, I get on the boards on my phone,  because my computer is a shared one, and I would rather not do it that way.  Doing it at work is just as bad, but hubby can't see it.  lol

 

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Registered: 10-30-2012
Fri, 11-02-2012 - 12:53pm

I'm totally in the same boat - posting from work because it's the only place my H can't see what I'm doing!

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Registered: 07-23-2012
In reply to: cmthia
Fri, 11-02-2012 - 2:33pm

Hoping the techs will be able to work on the mobile next week as they are on the east coast and still getting everything back in working order since the hurricane, and now I hear there is a north easter coming!

Hoping the East Coast gets a break soon!

Community Leader
Registered: 09-21-2007
Fri, 11-02-2012 - 2:45pm

Cmthia ~ I understand, because I am on the east coast.  It's a slow clean up, and I hope it's done soon.

 

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Registered: 09-13-2012
Sat, 11-03-2012 - 10:41am

I'm lucky because we have separate laptops, and I mine is password protected and I delete browsing history, but still I can only do it when he's not around because the screen is so much easier to see than my phone.  They really need an ap for this!!

In a similar story, my AP only writes to me from his work laptop. He has it at home, so we chat over the weekend, but this Friday he had major issues logging into his work computer. He finally got a tech to help him, but once he signed off for the day, that was going to be it for the rest of the weekend.  He can't get on the shared computer to write to me because his W would find out.  He's getting his work computer sorted out Monday.  I wrote to him after we talked about all this yesterday, and said that without technology, we wouldn't really be together. How did people manage affairs back in the day? LOL.  I guess that was the day of the call and hang up if the spouse answered, no caller ID, etc. But probably a lot riskier! On the flip side, it was probably easier to deny because no spouses could find written record of the A on emails, etc.  It would be interesting to hear from someone who had an A 15 or 20 years ago before we had all this technology.

On that note, I'm really missing my nice little weekend emails and night time chats with AP. :(  Fortunately, we have plans to get a hotel on Friday night! ;)  That will be our first time alone behind closed doors...I'm very much looking forward to it.