Stuff Just keeps getting in the way

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Registered: 03-29-2004
Stuff Just keeps getting in the way
Tue, 03-30-2004 - 8:43pm
I need to vent a little. When MM and I 1st met (4 months ago), we got together about 2-3 times per week. 100% sexual then. Then we worked on a "project" together and pretty much saw each other every day, though the actual sex part was less- maybe once per week. This past month we have not seen each other at all, though we talk almost every day (he calls more than I do).

We live about 40 min apart, and he's got a busy schedule, and he also has another (legit) reason he can't see me as much. The last several times we've tried to get together, even for just lunch with others, he's cancelled. I came right out and asked if he wanted it to end. He said no (and had his reason why it's been tough lately). We were supposed to get together today for lunch, but he cancelled again, but wanted to maybe get together after work (I couldn't), and maybe tomorrow.

Now, I KNOW it's only been a month, and it just seems like we never see each other because we used to see each other so much.But I just want to see him SO BAD, and junk just keeps getting in the way!!

I mean, I guess I take it as a good sign that we usually talk at least 1-3 times per day (weekends we usually skip a day).

Just frustrating.