Sucky week...

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Registered: 05-21-2010
Sucky week...
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Sun, 07-25-2010 - 11:20pm

Last weekend was our first meeting so I was on a high from that for a couple of days. He had let me know when we were together that his W would be out of town until Weds so he wouldn't be able to chat until at least Thursday night. We texted back and forth a few times during the early part of the week, but both had really hectic, busy weeks. Mine was sucky as I was applying for a new position in my company and I didn't get it. I was really bummed as it would have been a significant pay raise, as well as more travelling and a promotion!


Anyway, Thursday got a text from him saying that he was finishing up a big project (the one he's been working on all week) and would be chat ready Friday and the weekend.

So Friday..I didn't hear from him all day. Then I get an email Friday night. Telling me he is so sorry that he hasn't been able to chat...he's thinking of me....he's missing me...so enjoyed our time together...but that life has been hectic in the last two days. Said his father is really ill...there has been a tragedy in the in laws family, and his youngest son is having surgery on Monday! Told me he was so sorry about it all and that he hopes I don't think he is making up a story and that he will be available later on next week and that he will make it up to me.

So...I do believe him...I must admit that my insecure nature was beginning to think that maybe he just didn't want to do this anymore...but I do believe him. Still...it SUCKS big time that the week after our first meeting all of this cr*p has to happen in real life and interfere in my A!


I just needed to vent and get this off my chest...feel better now! I just hate not being able to talk to him and get my "fix"!!! So...looking forward to the middle of the week when hopefully he will get through all of the "life" things going on and be able to get back to ME! Sounds selfish doesn't it...with all that he has going on.
So...anybody else out there want to join in and have a pity party... vent... anything...

LouLou
LouLou
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Registered: 05-03-2010
In reply to: loulou2010
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 11:35pm

I'm so sorry it's been a lousy week communication wise, especially following your first meeting with him.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 07-13-2010
In reply to: loulou2010
Mon, 07-26-2010 - 12:56am

I'm sorry it's been a tough week loulou.

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Registered: 04-11-2010
In reply to: loulou2010
Mon, 07-26-2010 - 6:51am

Oh Lou I feel for you. As was said, being relegated to last on his list is fair and expected- but bloody hell it hurts!


Big hugxxx

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Registered: 03-26-2010
In reply to: loulou2010
Mon, 07-26-2010 - 11:19am

That crash from the lovely fantasy to the world of reality is no fun!