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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2010
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Wed, 11-03-2010 - 11:00am

Hi all,

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 11:20am

The counselor's first and foremost job is to help the couple work things out ... that s the main point of couples therapy ... Does your AP know that you called the counselor?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 11:36am

Thank you for the reply.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2007
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 11:38am

I think the counselor means that she will pretend the call never happened and will not bring it up in their sessions.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-27-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 11:43am

Wow, I don't have experience in dealing with a MM, but my guess would be that if its been a year and a half of him telling you he's leaving his W and still hasn't done it, he wants to have his cake and eat it too.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 12:43pm

Since you admitedly threw him under the bus, you probably ruined what you had and it wont be the same again !

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 12:52pm

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 8:04pm

She will not say anything to him and according to what she said, she will try not to let the information you told her influence her counseling.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 8:28pm

I'm sorry: I know this is a support board, but I'm having a really hard time getting past the fact that you threw your AP under the bus.

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 9:29pm

It makes more sense to tell his W.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2009
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 9:44pm

yeah, I kinda grimaced when I read that too.. but she's totally honest.. and as the saying goes "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".. .it is not right, but in a world of all grays, is it any more right than him doing the classic "drag along".. who is to say..

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