Talk About Floored!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Talk About Floored!
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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 2:22pm
I finally sat down and had long talk with CM yesterday.

The gist of the conversation was what I have been pondering with you ladies for the past few weeks. I told him, very bluntly, that I didn't see the point in getting too emotionally attached to him, because like it or not, he does have a girlfriend, and I was not up to getting my heart broken. I also let him know that if he were to be single at any time in the future, I would not be adverse to investing my time and efforts into him.

He was Floored! Didn't know what to say. I guess I gave him a lot to think about, but I didn't ask him to leave her, because I've learned in here that doing that is rarely successful, and I'm too realistic to assume he loves me enough to do that. Not only that, but could I trust him if he did?

In return, I got FLOORED today. It had nothing to do with CM, rather an old boyfriend of mine who is now an Army Ranger. He called me for the first time in three months, after never showing up to visit me one day in January. He's leaving for Iraq tonight. Ladies keep him in your prayers. He holds a special place in my heart. He called because he got my letters, some written before that day, and some written after. He was less than pleased. He's furious with me for being upset that he never once called. I'm not please with him.

Anyway, Ladies, I needed to get all of this off my chest, thanks for being so unfailing supportive.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-27-2003 - 2:26pm
done deal. my prayers are with all of them.