Tell me your longest Nc with return

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Registered: 03-05-2004
Tell me your longest Nc with return
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Fri, 05-14-2004 - 7:19pm
Hi,

I was curious as to amount of time of NC you have been through and then they returned .

Weeks ? months ?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2004
Wed, 06-02-2004 - 1:07am
Our affair has been going on for 8 yrs only 4 of which they've been married. we have had many NC's all at my insistance but the longest one was 9 months which killed me inside and hurt him badly. We've now been on again for 4 months and its better than ever.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2004
Wed, 06-02-2004 - 2:27am
Well guys,

I tried to call his house to get ahold of him to get my money back that he borrowed. He borrowed it almost a year ago. Was suppose to pay me back last week. I talked to him 11 days ago and he said he was getting it from his father. yeah right! His wifes voice is on home answering machine and on his cell phone. I know nothing. I don't know if he has moved out or anything. My daughter left a message asking for him to call her mother back and let her know when he was going to pay me back! he never returned the call! Guess I can kiss that three thousand good-bye ! What a mess ! He told me he has told her everything so what could it hurt to call and try to get back my money? I have lost everything! His W will continue to rule his life forever !
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anonymous user
Wed, 06-02-2004 - 7:40am
Well it looks like we will match that NC period we had when we were offically apart, so what to make of this??? He is overseas right now for 2 weeks... and I have NO plans to call him when he gets back. Whatever will be will be!

:(

dd

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-26-2004
Wed, 06-02-2004 - 12:11pm
Longest no physical contact has been 1 month. Longest NC has been 3 days.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2004
Wed, 06-02-2004 - 12:57pm

The longest NC has been 9 days. Physical NC has been 7 months (LDA). Been in this 4 years.


Right now, I intiated the NC mode. We, well he started a argurement with me on friday and left me like that so it's going on 5 days of NC today. I purposely have not signed on the screen name he knows so he won't see me on his buddy list.


I want him to wonder where the heck I am this time!


 

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2003
Wed, 06-02-2004 - 1:03pm
A week at the most during the times we are in the A, for we can't keep at it for more than that.. LOL I have lost count of the number of times we were in NC, too many times if you ask me..

As far as totally being out of it, it could be counted to a good 7 months atleast. Yeah, I am the NC queen ... :-)

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Registered: 02-17-2004
Wed, 06-02-2004 - 4:22pm


Too long.. Way to long..

The first time was about 2 weeks..and it was a long 2 weeks.

We just had a small NC for 5 days and I hate it.. I get very upset and start thinking I did something wrong. 1 day is too long for me.

Cassy

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