Thank you

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Registered: 05-17-2003
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Sat, 07-24-2010 - 10:59pm

Dear lexi, another, ali and snow (who I was trying to reply to when I realized that my post was deleted completely...you have no idea how much your insight has helped me, more than any therapist I've ever seen in the last two years).


This is obviously not the place for me, and I won't be returning. I realize that I've said this before, but it's enough.


I want to thank you all for your support, and I wish you all the very best.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
In reply to: benska2003
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 12:01am

You need the guidance and support of PROFESSIONALS,

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2009
In reply to: benska2003
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 4:31am
I agree....PROFESSIONAL help is what you need..not a message board
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: benska2003
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 8:26am

If you paid any attention at all, you'd have noticed that all the "sugar coated" advice from the bunch of women traveling down the "same foogy road" also urged Benska to get professional help, the sooner the better, and we said it in a compassionate manner that might actually get her to listen.

I'm going to report your post as a violation. It is not respectful of the posters here. It will be up to the mods what to do about it, but it might actually revoke your posting privileges, and not just here.

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You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull

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You've

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2010
In reply to: benska2003
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 9:57am

Hi benska,


I hope that you

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
In reply to: benska2003
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 10:47am

Dear Benska,


I hope you come back, we share a similar past history in being abused as young girls.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2008
In reply to: benska2003
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 11:05am

hey benska....i hope all goes well for you and you heel from all of this...my encouragement to you is to take time out to care for you..whether it be therapy, a life coach, spending time with yourself etc.......((HUGS))..

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
In reply to: benska2003
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 12:24pm

Don't leave benska!!!


Don't leave benska!!!


Don't leave benska!!!


Don't leave benska!!!


Don't leave benska!!!


This is what happens when I've just woken up: only able to articulate like a three year

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2010
In reply to: benska2003
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 12:49pm

Fogged out responses praising her

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2010
In reply to: benska2003
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 1:25pm

Duh, you two, you can get professional help AND post on these boards.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
In reply to: benska2003
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 1:31pm

As much as I agree with you and the others, sadly, you're just wasting your breath.

anotherseyes

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