Do your respective clients know about your relationship with opposing counsel? Do you realize that you could be disbarred for your relationship if it is undisclosed to your clients?
I just went to court today with now xh. When we first got there he was cracking jokes, which is his way and fine with me. But when they sent us into the courtroom to sit alone, it wasn't funny anymore and I had to try and hold back the tears. It was so hard to answer the judges questions. I could feel xh's eyes and knew that there would be a look of heartbreak if I looked over to him. We walked out together and he asked me for a hug and said I guess this is it. Then we hugged and both walked in opp. directions. I just burst into tears and couldn't stop for some time. I talked to mm and he told me I'm too nice and that xh brought it on himself. He treated me like crap. Which is funny, because before court xh told me that he finally reasized how badly he treated me. That for as much as he loves me, he didn't act like it. I don't ever want to go through that again. Anyhow, sorry to go on and on. I hope your's goes as well as can be. We're here if you need someone to listen. Jdreamer96
Sorry I missed your post in my catch up today... but as usual... the wonderful ladies have come to your assistance.
I'm glad to see that you are getting what you need from the board... it's always nice to know that there will at least be one person who will offer you some support when it's most needed... the board has been my saviour many a time... and it's one reason I stepped up to take the reins and maybe think my experience will help someone.
Good luck with tomorrow... and let us know how everything goes.
luv and hugs
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"Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly"
jdreamer -- i'm sorry for your anguish. no doubt about it, divorce is hard, hard, hard! hang in there, the days will get better as time passes. remember, you deserve to be treated with love, honor and respect. whomever is NOT giving you all that and more, does NOT deserve you.
I just went to court today with now xh. When we first got there he was cracking jokes, which is his way and fine with me. But when they sent us into the courtroom to sit alone, it wasn't funny anymore and I had to try and hold back the tears. It was so hard to answer the judges questions. I could feel xh's eyes and knew that there would be a look of heartbreak if I looked over to him. We walked out together and he asked me for a hug and said I guess this is it. Then we hugged and both walked in opp. directions. I just burst into tears and couldn't stop for some time. I talked to mm and he told me I'm too nice and that xh brought it on himself. He treated me like crap. Which is funny, because before court xh told me that he finally reasized how badly he treated me. That for as much as he loves me, he didn't act like it. I don't ever want to go through that again. Anyhow, sorry to go on and on. I hope your's goes as well as can be. We're here if you need someone to listen. Jdreamer96
Hey attorneygal,
Sorry I missed your post in my catch up today... but as usual... the wonderful ladies have come to your assistance.
I'm glad to see that you are getting what you need from the board... it's always nice to know that there will at least be one person who will offer you some support when it's most needed... the board has been my saviour many a time... and it's one reason I stepped up to take the reins and maybe think my experience will help someone.
Good luck with tomorrow... and let us know how everything goes.
luv and hugs
Community Leader My Affair Support
email me at sweetc_@hotmail.com
"Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly"
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My
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Jdreamer, it's hard, I have been there, but you will get through it and be better off for the steps you have taken, good luck!
Hugs, ~Wishing~
C
Let us know how it went!
Kari