Thanks to you all

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2004
Thanks to you all
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Thu, 01-15-2004 - 9:55pm
I honestly do not think I am cut out for this type of relationship. I have solid feelings for this MM and I find I want to spend too much energy on it, vs. my marriage.

Someone was dead on when they asked if I wanted to spend the time/energy on something that he has set the ground rules for... and the answer is no.. I don't. I want to be FIRST in someone's life.. not second. I am not being fair to me....

SO, what the hell do I do?? I see a therapist on Monday, get myself healthy and on the right track and move on!


Thank you all for the advice!

HUGS!

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 10:01pm

Hey in to deep,


I'm glad to hear that the board and it's members have been of some help to get you through this tough time.


You've made a decision and have a direction to take... and that's always a good place to start


I wish you all the very best in life and love... and do drop in again sometime and let us know how you are going.


luv and hugs

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 01-16-2004 - 10:05am
hey intoodeep -- girl, IT IS A ROLLERCOASTER RIDE when you're involved in an A!! but if you have misgivings for any reason, you should not be involved with a MM/OM. it's a lot of time and effort so it sounds like you've made the best decision for YOU!!

take care,

gurl