therapy anyone?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2007
therapy anyone?
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Wed, 01-21-2009 - 7:43pm
i ve posted here a few times in the past, mostly lurk. anyway has any one gone into therapy over their AP and how did you go about it and what made you
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2008
In reply to: rat62
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 9:01pm

Wow, 20 years!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2008
In reply to: rat62
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 10:24pm

Actually I'm in the process of looking for one at this time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2009
In reply to: rat62
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 3:19am

I have been kicking the idea of going to counseling around for awhile, but because of the line of work that I'm in, I have kinda put it off, but I do recognize the fact that I need it bad, especially if AP doesn't keep his word about moving out in March. The girls here will tell you, I was teetering on the edge for a minute there. I am ashamed to say that what brought me back was breaking NC, and hooking up w/ AP against my better judgment.

I think it is great that you recognize the fact that you need counseling. Some people just refuse to go. They tell themselves that it doesn't work, or they don't need it. So my hats off to you for taking care of you, and taking steps to better yourself. You go girl!

Justice

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2007
In reply to: rat62
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 4:59am
I just started going. This past tues was my second session. Shes having me go once a week. My husband is dead set against it. Eventually i told her i would like to have my husband come to. Maybe with her help i can make my marriage better some how. She told me i would then have to give up my ap. Im not ready for that. I want both to work.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2004
In reply to: rat62
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 9:20am

rat62,


Yes, I have been in Therapy for a few months and it has been a godsend.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2007
In reply to: rat62
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 7:29pm

thanks for the responses, It always helps to know you are not alone, I hope to start therapy soon


This board is a God send thanks for all the posts