They are Seperated!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2009
They are Seperated!!
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Fri, 01-09-2009 - 2:47am

Well, I don't even know what to say or think.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 11:55am

I would say that if you are having him w/o getting into their nasty D, who cares? I am hoping the same for my AP!! You are winning.how its happening,you shouldnt bother,i guess.

You are in my thoughts,hon.I am happy for you.My AP is on the fence right now but is very close to file and i am keeping my fingers crossed.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 3:05pm

I think maybe its natural even though you guys have been having an A for him to feel a little hurt that she is stepping outside of the

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2005
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 7:46pm
My MM caught his wife cheating. He was also upset.They split up too. But he ended up going back to her. It didn't work out though. They are divorced now. So i would i say wait and see.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2006
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 8:57pm

My friend is married to man that was her AP for years. His wife found out and divorced him, and then they got married.

She confided in me that she often wonders if he didnt get caught if he would have left. She sometimes feels that he married her because his wife gave him the boot and he just wanted another person to take her shoes. Yes, she is happy she got him in the end...but getting someone by default is certainly something to think about. And there are no "winners" in a situation like this. It is painful and messy, especially when there are children involved.

My advice to you is to support him through this whole thing, and to take things one day at a time. There are going to be stages that he goes through and then stages the two of you go through once you start dating above the board.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-26-2006
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 11:00pm
What you said about how he would not have the strength to leave W if she wanted to stick it out with him .

 

 

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