Things Are Getting Out of Control

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2008
Things Are Getting Out of Control
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Thu, 09-18-2008 - 6:07pm

Okay so I have mentioned that I fooled around with my best-friends husband ONCE and things are getting really sticky... She is telling me that things are getting worse between them and she is telling me that they have not been intimate in months...So, she is really worried... and asking me what she should do...


We all had dinner last night and he and I ended up alone like always and it wasn't so awkward until he told me he loved me and wanted to leave his wife...he said that he has given it some thought and wants a divorce and he is willing to wait for some time to go by before we try to see if us works...he said the he knows

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2003
Thu, 09-18-2008 - 6:40pm

Honestly?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-13-2007
Thu, 09-18-2008 - 6:59pm
do you know the story of denise richards? if not, i suggest you google her.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2008
Thu, 09-18-2008 - 8:20pm
I disagree w/ some of the other posters. IT IS NEVER OK TO DATE YOUR BEST FRIENDS EX-HUSBAND/HUSBAND......NEVER! I know that all of us on here are here because we have made decisions in our lives that were immoral, or lacking in judgement, but some lines you just don't cross, and B/F's Husband is at the top w/ mom's H, or sister's H. You can never tell her, and tell him to piss off. I also think it would be a good idea to do some soul searching, and find out what allowed you to cross such a obvious line. I hope that you can get rid of him, and maintain your friendship. Good luck.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 7:53am

How do YOU feel about him?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 9:36am
How involved have you been with this man?

 

 

 

 

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2007
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 10:35am

I met my MM before his W.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 1:33pm

I am not involved with him at all... It was just kissing and a lil touchying

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 1:40pm

Things are so complicated between us because he and I are really close I mean everyone knows it...thats why its not easy to just walk away even though I may have to if things don't change...he has been open to my friend about how he feels and the thing is they think its just a great friend love...which part of it is but part of it is more...


I just feel lost because I know that I don't see him like that..other than a physical attraction there is nothing... I am still

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 1:53pm

And he wants to leave his wife for you over that?

 

 

 

 

 

******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-15-2007
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 2:31pm

I think somehow you are not screaming NO loud enough for him to get the message.

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