Things Are Getting Out of Control
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Things Are Getting Out of Control
| Thu, 09-18-2008 - 6:07pm |
Okay so I have mentioned that I fooled around with my best-friends husband ONCE and things are getting really sticky... She is telling me that things are getting worse between them and she is telling me that they have not been intimate in months...So, she is really worried... and asking me what she should do...
We all had dinner last night and he and I ended up alone like always and it wasn't so awkward until he told me he loved me and wanted to leave his wife...he said that he has given it some thought and wants a divorce and he is willing to wait for some time to go by before we try to see if us works...he said the he knows

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I feel like I am being loud... I have told him that it will never happen again... I told him what he feels does not matter because I will never cross that boundary again... I don't hug him other then to say hi when I get to a place or when he gets to a place he hugs me... Our converstations are very short and in front of everyone so nothing is said... I have tried to get away from him and I avoid trips anywhere so no one says why don't you both go to the store...
I don't let him do anything to me...cause like I said we were close and he use to message me...play with my hair...we even use to cuddle... but now I stay far far away....
I don't know how else to tell him NO....
Thats the thing he is being really smart and waiting until we are completely alone... or he calls me and tells me that stuff... I just feel like its getting worse before it gets better... I told him I would tell her he said fine then maybe she will see that her and I are over and have been for years... I mean its not like he wants to marry me, but he said you know I have always had feelings for you, but because of the way things happened I married her and now more than ever I realize that I did love her, but she was never the one for me... I told him I don't care who the one for
YOU RUN THE OTHER WAY AS QUICKLY AS YOU CAN!!!!!!! Take it form someone who has BTDT. It is not worth the friendship or the pain of getting caught and losing it all.
Lost~
Well said!
I totally agree with changeisneeded2008 he's going to tell her.
BTDT means 'been there, done that':)
Oh ok, that makes sense.
I don't know if you saw the post that I put up where I apologized for my behavior w/ the troll, but I am sorry. Thanks for warning me about TOS violations. I got two separate warnings that I had violated the TOS agreement. So does that count as two separate episodes, and I only have one chance left, or is it counted as 1 occurrence, and I have two left? Either way I certainly don't plan on disrespecting anyone else. I was just curious. Thanks again.
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