Things are good.

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Things are good.
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Mon, 12-08-2003 - 12:29am

Well... I've pretty much come clean with MM as to how I feel about him and our relationship... and he reacted pretty much the way I expected him too.


We had a few emails back and forth last week where I was trying to explain things to him as I wanted him to know and be aware of my feelings.

Sweet
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Registered: 05-21-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 12:40pm
Sweet, I am at the point where I want to have this exact conversatio with MM. I feel like we are on such unknown ground. I need to know how he feels before I get any more emotionally involved. I'm scared though. I don't think I have the courage to tell him how I feel without knowing how he feels. He tells me all the time that "you know how I feel about you". No, I don't! Do you regret telling him? Did you feel better or worse?

Thanks

Secret
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 3:40pm
Alright, sweet!!! Glad you got the response you wanted from the MM. Enjoy!
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Registered: 06-24-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 6:36pm

Hi Secret,


Till this point in time... MM and I have never really discussed our feelings... but I've always been able to feel that there is more to our relationship than just the sex.

Sweet
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 8:29pm
Sweet..

your posts and the way you handle things with your MM make so much sense. You handle things so calmly and rationally...thanks from someone who is new to all of this!

 Seeburg    

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 9:46pm

Thanks seeburg... I sure hope that in some small way I shed a little light at the end of the tunnel for any one of you that are trying to find your way through.


I used to be a very irrational person... but over the past few years realised that I didn't get any closer to anything that I may have wanted... so... I now take a very calm and rational approach to most areas of my life.

Sweet
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Registered: 10-23-2003
Tue, 12-09-2003 - 9:35am
SWEET....GIRL YOU GOT IT GOIN' ON!!!

If only all of us could share in your rational ways...I will admit, Im improving, slowly but surely!!!

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