Things seem to be different????

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Registered: 04-23-2009
Things seem to be different????
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Tue, 10-13-2009 - 10:45am

So for those of you out there, do you recall things being really different the 2nd time being *together*; different as in the 2nd time being much more amazing and/or did things seem different between you two afterwards (in a good way)?


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Registered: 10-10-2009
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 4:16pm
Well I think sometimes the first time with anyone isn't always mind blowing. The second time things are a lil more comfortable. AP and I are physically involved 2-3 times a week and each time is different. I try not to let any emotions get involved b/c I think thats when things really get weird or hard. AP and I are friends and I've always told him that we'll cut off the physical part b/c I can't lose him as
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Registered: 11-01-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 5:39pm

Yes, it was very different for us the second time around.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 8:36pm

Hi LIGA,


You didn't finish the story. You said..."he just laid there on my lap". You left out the part about afterwards he went home to his wife. Why did you leave that part out?


I started a thread on EAS...Would You Sign This???? It might help you see exactly what you are getting into with MM.


No doubt A sex is great...I

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 10-12-2009
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 10:19pm
E1 - I know you may get some heat for that, but good for you!! I just posted on EAS, responded to you about how insightful I find your responses, then I hop over here to see what's up on MAS, and there you are putting it out there like it is. THAT IS WHAT WE NEED!! That was a great response!! Yes our second time was great, third time even better...but guess what. I am feeling like I am going to throw up I am in so much pain right now. The pain E-1 tells you may be on the way? Believe her.....
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Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 10:47pm

Hi LFT,


I just answered you too over on EAS ;)


It's ok if I get heat...I can take it. I know people might take what I have to say the wrong way but hey I know the highs they are great...the highs the A drug provides hmmmm...wonderful...but it's the lows the hurt...so much. One poster put it so well they said...for every minute of pleasure there is 10 minutes of pain and agony. It's so true.


Well I do know that I can't help someone who doesn't want my help. I know the thinking and the mentality...I use to be right there too. Even if they don't like what I have to say or even hate me today, I will still be there to help them when they end up on EAS. It's not if just when at least for most.


Much love,


E1



Whether you think you can or you think you cant you are probably right.


A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.


Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 12-18-2008
Wed, 10-14-2009 - 7:27am

I thought this board was for ppl having A's to support each other.

There are other boards for other situations.

I don't know why you take it upon yourself to come to this board to post information that for this board is totally OT. It's uncalled for.

We who are in A's know where to find the information you post, thank you so very much!

-jana

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Registered: 10-08-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 12:14pm

For me the sex got better....the first time we were nervous, second time more relaxed....so on and so forth.

You're AP sounds like mine....he doesn't want to "plan" it either. I say: why does it matter? It's going to happen anyway whether it's planned or not.