Things Your Affair Has Taught You...

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Registered: 04-21-2004
Things Your Affair Has Taught You...
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Mon, 05-31-2004 - 2:59pm
I have learned:

that love comes in many forms.

that love is not always perfect.

that I am capable of many things (both good and bad) that I didn't know were possible.

that its never to late rethink and replan your life.


Those are just a few of mine. How about you?

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 3:15pm
Don't ever have a tender moment with MM and not contact him for rest of the day - he is very sensitive about that... :)

Don't pressure him to tell you anything - for pressuring accomplishes nothing with him.. LOL

oh, the best of all, I have never know passion like this before, it can be crazy!

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Registered: 04-01-2004
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 4:52pm


PATIENCE !!!!

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Registered: 04-29-2004
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 5:20pm
It has taught me that it is best not to view the world in black and white terms. He personally has taught me a lot of things about life and people. It has taught me that the right person can show up at just the right time. It has taught me self-control and self-restraint. Unfortunately, it has made me realize how deceptive I am capable of being.
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Registered: 04-25-2004
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 8:03pm
- Listening to my heart has brought me so much happiness and pain at the same time.

- I am capable of truly loving someone.

- That love is not enough. Someone can love me so much but still may not want to be with me enough to make a change in his life.

- That I am stronger than I ever thought but not strong enough to ever leave MM.



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Registered: 05-09-2004
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 8:10pm
I am capable of making decisions for my own happiness, even if they may not be the best ones for my family.

I have a strong sense of self-preservation.

I am willing and able to use deceipt to protect myself and my family.

I am incredibly passionate and loving.

Happiness for one may not be happiness for another.

Life is unfair.

Some secrets are to hurtful to be revealed.

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 8:21pm
Love is akin to hope; which is the antithesis to deferred despair which is akin to inertia.

Love is healing.

Love is an affirmation to living.

The world came alive in color when I truly loved and was loved in return

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 8:51pm
This A has taught me what MM refers to as the too-much-chocolate principle: having limited access to something wonderful can make the pleasure of having it more exquisite than if it were available every day... I always complain to MM that we make love so infrequently that it always feels like our first time — very shy, very urgent. Yesterday I repeated the complaint as I slid into bed next to him. He said, "But sugah, what could be BETTER than sex that feels like the first time every time?"

At this rate I guess we'll be in the "honeymoon phase" for a decade or so...for a big dummy, my MM is pretty smart...:)

barefoot

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Registered: 01-03-2004
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 8:57pm
Barefoot,

Your posts crack me up! And they ring _so_ true! I've shared some of them with my MM and he agrees.

We only get to see each other every couple of weeks, so I know what you mean. Shy only lasts about ten seconds, though. And what a concept! Ten years of honeymoon! Oh, Man...

Hope you had a great weekend. I just wanted to say thanks for your posts. They're great!



Cazrida

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Registered: 06-29-2003
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 10:08pm
Well said ladies, well said. Barefoot, I think I like your MM's way of thinking!!!

Virgogirl

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 11:59pm
It is possible to love two wonderful men at the same time.

It is impossible to live two separate lives.

It is possible to change your self-image.

It is impossible to change the path that has been set.

Love hurts.

The actions we take, despite the fact that we deserve the results, are not always best for others we care for.

Positive thinking brings positive results.

I am beautiful (In the eyes of at least two people).

The person you think you know, is not the person that goes home (or, the person that goes home, is not the person you know)!!!

Timing is everything.

A loving relationship, right or wrong, with the right person, is a blessing.

Take care

Red



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