thinking of having an affair......
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thinking of having an affair......
| Sat, 05-09-2009 - 12:12pm |
hello, my name is heather and i need some advice, or words... or, something and dont know where else to go... since most people would just yell at me for even having these thoughts and would actually listen... but, as a habitual cheater (DH is the first and only man i havent cheated on...its like an addiction to me or something...)

If it were me,
Video addiction is a big problem. Does your husband work?
Would he go to get help with the addiction? Do you have insurance?
All you have to do is start reading the posts to see that adding another "variable" (the Abercrombie-player...and he sounds like a dog-player)
to your marriage is not going to help, but complicate it.
Please find another way to make yourself feel better. It would be so much healthier.
You don't sound like a "Wal Mart" girl to me. You sound like someone who is struggling and looking for help. Maybe in the wrong direction. But looking. Please resist this guy. It sounds like he just wants sex and you are worth so much more than that.
Take care.
yea my Dh works.. but if he isnt at work, he is on the game. he played 10 hours yesterday,
I know that feeling of loneliness and like you are just married to your roommate. It sucks! And the whole 20 mins. for sex, ugh. Maybe just enjoy the flirting with this guy, but if he gets too serious remind him you are married. That could be just enough of what you need to feel good.
I don't know. I know what I get/got out of an affair, and to be honest, it really helped me and my self esteem. But I think I may be a bird of a different color! Just when I had come to accept exactly what I was going to get out of the affair, and just when I was totally OK with that (honestly, I was very content) x-ap had his "d-day" and I ended it right there.
It was kind of a bummer but really made me see the light. And I won't say I would never do it again. ---But, I would have never done it (nor will I ever) with a guy that I consider to just be a player or someone looking for a one night stand. That will just make you feel worse in the end.
Luvmy...
Please please re-read your posts.
Hi, Sweetie
I am sorry to tell you this but there are some HORNY GUYS that would do anything for a new laid... I used to