Thinking like a man?????

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Thinking like a man?????
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 11:27am
Ok, I have been told by several of my guy friends that I think like a man. I'm beginning to agree with them. They have no clue about MM and mine relationship, we all run in the same social circle. Anyway, yesterday I found myself lying to MM (this is not the first time I've done this). Even though I want to see him (badly) I told him I had to stay late at work. Instead I went home to take a nap and then went out to dinner with my girlfriend. What's up with that????? Thanks for letting me vent/ramble/babble........NMR
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 11:41am
Well nomo, I am glad you had fun with girlfriend. Men and affairs are not always fun and entertaining as most of us think - we need downtime. Recharge our batteries for more battle ahead. I am glad you took yours - I am taking a big downtime - forever.
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 11:47am
I know weird, Huh:)It's funny, I miss his hands not to mention other parts (teeheehee) and I miss him but I'm just not into it right now. Oh well, I've been in a wierd place for about a month now. Hopefully, I'll snap out of it soon because I do need SEX......... LOL! NMR
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 11:58am
I don't miss the sex, him or anything dear. Its really wonderful to be free - its liberating
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 12:06pm
Thanks, Me 2! :):) NMR
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 12:52pm

hey nmr and charmed -- i must be

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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 12:55pm
You girls are so cool !! But actually although I saw MM last week and we were thinking about getting together tomorrow. But I went ahead and made lunch plans with a girlfriend. And if he wanted to come over, I was going to tell him sorry. Which I NEVER do !!

But he ended up saying he had plans for tomorrow anyways and we'll try next week. Which is fine by me. Really, we should put ourselves first, lead our life and if they fit in it, great. Not us adjusting ours to suit them right?? I am trying to be a more true to myself person this year. I come 1st, and everyone else is 2nd. Take care,

Dusty
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 1:14pm
that's what i want to hear -- dusty, be yourself, for yourself, to please yourself because no one else will!

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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 1:16pm
All women rule but Strong/Self aware Women are the BOMB:):):) NMR
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 1:41pm
RIGHT ON SISTA!!!

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