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| Thu, 01-08-2004 - 1:36pm |
What was the longest period between physical contact??
How much time passed between you two were able to physically be with each other again?
Weeks? Months?
How much time passed between you two were able to physically be with each other again?
Weeks? Months?
I need to know to make me feel better. I'm about to burst, lol....

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Chin up! He'll be back soon!
EX
I worry about him giving up on us when I haven't heard from him for a week or so too, but he is quick to assure me that he'll let me know if his feelings change. In my case he's five years younger than I am. Is it always the older one that has insecurities? ;-) LDAs are so incredibly difficult but I didn't go looking for this, it just happened and now I'm learning to deal with it.
Good luck Ex.
I'm hoping.
I'm the one though feeling it. I feel frustrated and stressed cause I miss him so much.
We email or talk on the phone, but still!!!
To top it off. He's been feeling sick, has been for awhile,
And even though I know this. Somehow, I put my foot in my mouth anyway and still put pressure on him to come soon.
I just feel sooooo frustrated and annoyed that he hasn't been able to visit.
I know he misses & wants to come, but just can't right now.
I'm afraid I'm going to chase him away if I don't stop my constant nagging & whining....
I need to be the g/f NOT the wife.....
I have been in this in this LDA for over two yrs. now and it is maddening. We met twice last year and it was wonderful each time. We talk by phone weekly. We met this past November and was even able to spend the night!!! It was awesome to wake up wanting him and he was right there!! We live approx 500 miles apart and met closer to my end. He has family in a state in between and I manufactured a weeked shopping trip w/ the girls from work. It was so nice to act like a "normal" couple since the chances were slim that we'd see anyone we knew. We bonded more due to that I believe and it makes things worse..my heartache for him and he said that it is 'killing' him that we cannot be together. I feel so depressed and miss him sooo much..this is so painful!! At times I want to end it with him due to the pain but of course I cannot let him go...I am so confused. Good to know that I am not alone. Thanx for reading ~HUGS~ Cheetah
Have you noticed thatwhen men are sick or injured, all they do is BITCH?!?!?!? He whines like it is his full time job!!
EX
I agree, lol. My baby is a big whiner.
What crybabies, :)!
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