For Those in Long Distance EMA

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Registered: 03-31-2003
For Those in Long Distance EMA
Thu, 03-04-2004 - 9:00pm
Hello, been here about a year, EMA over 2 yrs, LDEMA 1 yr. I am M and plan to ask H for D soon.

My question is how do you deal with not being able to contact MM. H was going out of country (now he is not). MM begged me to meet him..I mean begged !! MM also told me that he plans to leave his w as well.

I havent spoke to him since Friday and we agreed that I call him at work Mon or Tues. I called and he is "off" work!! I am frantic. I feel something must have happened bc he does not know yet that I won't be able to meet him. I kno this goes with the terrority yet I am a mess. He can call me just about anytime and he has not. His w pays cell so I cannot call his cell and I have his home # of course I can't call there. My imagination is getting the best of me.

Do you have contacts for each other in case something really happens to each other?? How do you know and not worry that he is ok? I have no one I can trust to let him know if anything ever happened to me. He gave me a friend of his address so that I can write to him and I have for the past year. I put a foney return name and address though. I just am going carzy waiting for him to call. Any ideas/advice would be appreciated greatly !!Thanx for letting me ramble. ~Cheetah~