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? for those who don't see them often
| Fri, 05-07-2004 - 11:08pm |
For those of you who do not see you MM very often..how do get back to normal after seeing them? I haven't seen my MM in almost 10 months but we should be soon. I know I feel lonely after an intense phone convo. I can't imagine how I am going to feel after I see him. We have not been intimate and up until now have only kissed. I do think more will happen when we see each other. I am just worried about how I will feel afterwards knowing I probably won't see him for a while (not 10 months but probably a few months). Thanks!

deedee
:)
My hats off to you and anyone else in a LDA. I don't see my mm often and he lives 5 min away! I guess i am in the middle ground here. I meant to also say you must be in a strong emotional relationship, I couldn't see mine being able to last long distance. When I don't have contact with my mm for say a week I start feeling a distance. You probably keep in touch more than we do out of necessity. This last time we went a record 4 weeks without physical contact and yes it was tough the next day. I hope you just enjoy every minute you are together, and say all you want to say, it helps afterwards.
deedee
I guess I'm telling you this to make the point that emotional A's do exist and can be as damaging as physical A's. So far I have discovered two important things through all this. The first is that my H is a truly amazing guy who I love very much. The second is that I STILL love MM. Crazy isn't it?
Anyway, that's my 2 cents.
Peace!
GB2
I really appreciate your input. I am sorry for what you are going through. That must be tough. I hope things get better for you. Your thoughts really made sense to me and although I do not love my MM we are connected and I will not let that go. Of course today my H has been wonderful and that does help me to put my A in perspective.
You take good care and thanks