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| Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:33am |
Marriage.....How did you do it? How did you go about it. Did you plan it out, see a lawyer? Or did you leave after your EMA was discovered? I'm interested in seeing how those of you who have left your Marriages went about doing so.
Thanks for your thoughts.
Wishing

i did leave my marriage and husband many years ago so i could have a different kind of life than that existence, which is what my M had become after 20 years together, 16 of those years married. xH was my first and only man. truthfully, i wanted to see other men, but didn't want the "married woman" title when i found someone.
so i planned, started putting a little money aside in a bank account under my name. looked around for apartments in the area where i lived and worked in case i had to leave the house with the kids if H wouldn't leave first. shopped for a new car in my own name. at that time, i worked for attorneys so i had all kinds of help with separation papers, child support, etc. explore your options first before you make a move. the more information you have, the more in control you'll feel.
just a little bit of planning makes the envitable move easier for you.
good luck whatever you decide,
gurl