Thoughts on Soul Mates

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Registered: 11-29-2003
Thoughts on Soul Mates
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Sun, 11-30-2003 - 2:33pm
Does anyone here believe her MM is her soulmate? Furthermore, what about his W? Do you think they are soul mates (as well)?

I believe that everything happens for a reason. I don't think MM and his STBXW are soul mates, but I do believe they got married for one reason, and that was for the child they created.

I definitely believe that MM and I are soulmates. He has changed his entire outlook on life and relationships now that he has met me. He truly understands the meaning of marrying your best friend. We share everything in common from goals & dreams to humor and entertainment, to favorite snack foods even! Neither of us ever realized that staying home on a Friday night could be so fun!

What are your thoughts?
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Sun, 11-30-2003 - 6:54pm
I too think my MM is my soulmate. We have so many things in common, we think alike about alot of things. I did not believe in soulmates until i met him. I feel closer to him in 3 months than I do to H after 17 years. Strange huh?

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Sun, 11-30-2003 - 10:00pm

I have different thoughts on soulmates... I do believe they are out there... but I don't believe we have to spend the rest of our lives with this person... and I also believe they we have more than one and that they can be the same of opposite sex.


I tend to think that MM is one of my soulmates... we've always had some sort of connection and an understanding between us.

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Registered: 11-30-2003
Sun, 11-30-2003 - 10:42pm
I am not a believer of soul mates. Hubby is not one, OM is not one. I am sure that things do happen for a reason and whatever people you meet they always have an impact on your life. I love both my men for different reasons. I also have another man, who is the closest thing to a soulmate that I could imagine. We have never been together, but the connection is strong and I love him more than I could ever explain. Long story about him, but he is forever in my heart if not in my arms. We both have seperate lives and have to be apart. I just got lucky enough to have so much love in my life. So anyways....just wanted to put my 2 cents in. :)
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 12-01-2003 - 9:24am
I believe in soul mates. I think my OM is a soul mate that completes me by understanding by a lot more than my DH. why? I don't know there are something things that we have done that don't have an explanation in the logical sense but on the psychic sense it is really beautiful. That is what drew me to him unexplainable energy between us that wouldn't go away however hard you try. I have never felt that way with H - we do believe in a lot of common things but that energy or that fire is missing. Even the things that ar common to us are more in a logical/rational level than at the emotional. I hope what I said made sense. lol
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Registered: 03-30-2003
Mon, 12-01-2003 - 10:20am
I do believe in *connections* and soulmates. I believe we could have more than one at varying levels, some more so than others. MM and I connect and understand eachother more than anyone else. We can't explain it. He says when I touch him it relaxes him in a way that he's never experienced with anyone. When he touches me it makes me melt every single time, just a touch on the hand and I feel *it*. We will always be friends, our friendship is more important to us than being lovers. MM says we have a forever thing and that's what we call our friendship. It's weird bc we love each other in a different kind of way, like a deep friendship, can't explain it.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 12-01-2003 - 12:35pm
Hope,

Isn't it wonderful somebody thinks that staying home on a Friday night could be fun? Yes, I love to do that with my MM, if he ever picks up that phone and calls me. I haven't read much about soulmates but I do believe that MM is mine too. We think alike for the most part, but there are differences, which is fine by me. Its the differences that make it more interesting don't you rhink? Glad your MM is getting away from him marriage and I hope you get some R and R very soon.

LF

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Registered: 12-01-2003
Mon, 12-01-2003 - 6:00pm
I compeletly agree with you.. I'm a MW that has had a bad marriage since the honeymoon was over. we hav a beauitful daughter together and I had a relationship with a guy I went to high school with it was something that just happen and I broke off talking to him so I could picec my life together for my little girl and not an hour goes by that I don't think of him.. we enjoyed doing nothing together and he was the man of my dreams.. I"m a firm believer that if you want something and it's meant to be just wait a while and it will happen.. I wish you and your man all the happiness.. everyone makes choices in thier lives and sometimes you make wrong ones then meet the person you really fall completely in love with.. I know I did..
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Registered: 09-22-2003
Tue, 12-02-2003 - 9:26am
I think that MM is my soulmate. I think that our R was inevitable. There were so many instances when we could have met. MM is five years older than me. One instance is that MM used to work at this one place when he was younger. My dad used to work at the same place as a security guard. When we met, I was attracted to him as soon as I clapped eyes on him. Within four months of working together, we were already together. He is everything. My best friend. My lover. Hpefully one day, my husband. Maybe it's corny, but I hope one day things work out for us.