Thrilled to have found this board

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Thrilled to have found this board
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Thu, 02-19-2004 - 4:31pm
I am completely thrilled to have found this message board. Finally, someplace I can talk and people will understand.

Little about me - M for 10 yrs and seperated from H. Then I met MM and my world was turned upside down (good and bad). I have been with MM for 18 mths. He tells me how misserable he is in his M and he wants to be with me. We talk everyday and see each other 1 a month (at least lately). W told him to leave in Dec. but he hasn't left. He is staying for his children. Am I kidding myself that this will ever work out and we'll be together?

His W received a call last week from someone who told her he was having an A. But, she's not revealing all of her info.

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 4:38pm
Welcome to the boards, sensativesoul! I've only been on here this week and have found such wonderful advice (honest and to the point at times) and stories so similar to my own. I've been married for nearly 8 years and have been having an A with my MM for 5 months (it's been wonderful) and I feel like a changed woman! Glad you are here!
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 4:53pm
TY. I think my Ex is the one who called her. He has no proof, but he knows we have been friends and he's been trying to find out who I am dating.
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Registered: 01-21-2004
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 9:27pm

hi sensativesoul and welcome to the board.

CL-Gurlfriend50

Co-CL of My Affair Support Board

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 10:49pm
Thanks for your words of advice.

I left my H before I met MM. My M was a wreck for years and I finally decided I had to end it. Thats when I met MM, we just started casually talking, then before I knew it we were talking every day and then the A. Since my split with H, I have become a different person, even before MM. I love my life but want so much more. The moment I first met MM I knew he was the one for me (didn't know he was M). I never dreamed I would be seeing a MM.

He, on the other hand has to deal with his W. There is no way she could have pictures and I already let him know, I would never admit the A. I also told him not to let her trick him into thinking I told.

I guess I will have to wait and see how things works out. He left her several months before we met, but returned home because of his children. Maybe, just maybe he'll leave. If not, I have loved like I have never loved before and felt more alive than I could have ever imagined.

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Registered: 01-21-2004
Fri, 02-20-2004 - 9:15am

and that's what you will take away from this R, all the love and wonderful, sweet memories you have with MM.

CL-Gurlfriend50

Co-CL of My Affair Support Board