Tme Sensitive!!! Keeping drama out of affair!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-26-2012
Tme Sensitive!!! Keeping drama out of affair!!!
5
Mon, 08-13-2012 - 6:05pm
I haven't been on in awhile...things have been going really well until recently. We seem to be in this cycle of three good days and then two days of drama that drains us both emotionally, mentally, and physically. We are in a bought of drama right now. I'd love a magical cure to get rid of all drama. Anyone have one???
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2010
Mon, 08-13-2012 - 9:02pm

Have you tried wishing on a shooting star?  LOL...just kidding.  For me, time fixed that.  The longer we were together, the less frequent the roller coaster became.  I would finally recognize trends, and I also started to understand that just because we had off days, it didn't mean it was the end.  With time comes some stability, but usually it also comes with acceptance about the failings in the A.  It's a lot fewer lows, but the highs aren't nearly as high, either.  It is a trade off.  

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-09-2012
Mon, 08-13-2012 - 9:52pm
Hey Agent haven't seen you around. When you find that cure let me know please. I need it. Mine has been going so well for a month or two and now everything seems to be going downhill again.