the tone of your voice?

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the tone of your voice?
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Thu, 04-15-2010 - 3:06pm

While with my AP this morning, I had a call from H.

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Thu, 04-15-2010 - 3:34pm
I don't think I do... but maybe if someone listened to me they could tell me better than I can tell! I might be way chattier with my OM, but that could be because we always have so much to talk about since the last time I saw him (we don't talk on the phone, and e-mails are usually kinda short - we save the chatter for face to face).

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Thu, 04-15-2010 - 4:26pm
Oh yeah. Looking back, the tone I used with my ex-H was totally different than the tone I used with AP/BF. My tone was - as you said - stern and not overly loving with H. With AP/BF it's always been very sweet and loving -- and that's because I allow the way I really feel to flow into my voice. I truly love and care for AP/BF whereas I had checked out of my marriage and the emotion had been gone for awhile.
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Thu, 04-15-2010 - 4:56pm
I think there is a change in the tone in my voice, and I know there is with my honey. I listened to him on the phone with his xw and his voice sounded exactly like my xh's sounds when he talks to me privately. I thought it was very interesting. I know I generally use a much softer tone with my honey and a much harsher one with the xh.
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Thu, 04-15-2010 - 6:47pm
ITA with this.
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Fri, 04-16-2010 - 5:34am

Hi all,


i had to respond to this thread,

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Fri, 04-16-2010 - 8:45am
I am SW with MM so can speak for him.When AP receives her phone in front of me,he talks like when someone talks to an aquantaince,kinda indifferent,no enthusiasm.But when he is on phone with me,I can feel his sexiness.Hes got a damn sexy voice.
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Tue, 04-20-2010 - 9:37pm
Two weeks ago while with AP he received a phone call from his W, and I definitely noticed this tone changed. He was much more dry, and very expressionless. Who knows maybe he was in shock that she called while we were in bed together. He actually jumped out of the bed and walked a few feet away! I could hear her voice through the phone "hi honey!" blah blah...he did not reply with the same enthusiasm.
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Tue, 04-20-2010 - 10:22pm
100% yes !

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