Trains

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Registered: 08-08-2008
Trains
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Thu, 10-02-2008 - 11:17am

So the first train has hit (Secret & Tgr called that one)!

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Registered: 06-15-2007
In reply to: trtlehi
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 12:08pm

Hang in there trtle.

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Registered: 11-28-2007
In reply to: trtlehi
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 2:41pm

Hi sweetie -


Just wanted to send you hugs and let you know I'm thinking about you.

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 06-06-2008
In reply to: trtlehi
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 11:18am

Hi trtlehi, someone from MAS sent me here to read your threads because my MM is leaving his wife this month, and she say that the trains will come for me too.

I just want to tell you that you sound like a very mature, caring, and thoughtful person who has a firm grasp of reality, and the world around her. Kudos to you g/f. I know it was hard to have that conversation w/ him, but when faced w/ possibly having your heart broken by say what you said, you still put your love for him before your own feelings. That is love for real. I am in awe of your complete desire for what he needs, and the way that you sound, it sounds like he struck gold, and he really should hold on to you tight.

I don't know if this will make you feel any better but when I got my D it was MOST DEFINITELY what I wanted. I had NO doubts about that, AP or no AP. I wanted out, and yet when the papers came I was surprised that I was a little sad. The death of a marriage is never easy, so try to take stock in the fact that it's not a wavering of his love for you, but the change from familiar to uncharted territory. Knowing that he has hurt someone has been unsettling, and really it's a good thing that he feels that. It shows that he has depth, and a capacity to love, and a concept of the feelings of others. You will make it through this and come out the other end of that tunnel, maybe a little shaken, but stronger than ever.

I truly wish you both all the happiness in the world, and ten lifetimes to share it.